After countless times, the missionary and doggy style positions might no longer excite you and your partner. This doesn’t mean your sex drive is waning; you just need to mix things up! Sex can become boring if done the same way repeatedly.
To revitalize your sex life, try introducing sex toys or experimenting with new positions. This article focuses on the latter. Most of the positions mentioned are doable for couples, except for The Maypole, which requires strong quads and glutes.
Here are 12 wild sex positions for you and your partner to try. Start with heavy-duty foreplay and involve your fingers for a more enjoyable experience.
1. The Cat
Why it’s awesome: This variation of the missionary position enhances clitoral stimulation. Research shows women who struggle to orgasm in missionary position find success with this technique.
How to try it: Begin in missionary position, then shift your body up and over to one side. Rock forward and back instead of thrusting up and down to maintain direct clitoral contact.
2. The Ottoman Empire
Why it’s awesome: It’s versatile and allows her to control depth and speed while you can also thrust. Both hands are free for teasing or using a sex toy.
How to try it: Lie back on an ottoman (without wheels). Have her straddle you, moving up and down. For more freedom, move halfway down the ottoman.
3. The Chair
Why it’s awesome: It provides intense and deep penetration.
How to try it: Lean against the wall as if doing a wall sit. Your legs should be bent nearly at a right angle, close enough for her to straddle you.
4. The Maypole
Why it’s awesome: It’s exhilarating and her clitoris will rub against your pubic bone.
How to try it: From the chair position, have her wrap her legs around you, lean back, lift her with your hands beneath her bum, and move to an almost standing position.
5. The Twist and Shout
Why it’s awesome: This position is intimate, slow, and encourages deeper penetration.
How to try it: Lie on your back with one leg extended and the other bent. Have her straddle your extended leg, moving up and down your penis.
6. Cradled Cowgirl
Why it’s awesome: It offers clitoral stimulation while maintaining intimacy.
How to try it: Instead of the traditional cowgirl position, have her lay forward, cradling her face into your neck.
7. Backdoor Oral
Why it’s awesome: It provides a different sensation by approaching from behind.
How to try it: Have her lay on her stomach with a pillow under her hips for easier access to her vulva.
8. Doggy Angle
Why it’s awesome: It’s an easier twist on classic doggy style.
How to try it: Have her lay face down with her butt raised, supported by a pillow or her forearms.
9. The Double Decker
Why it’s awesome: It’s an easy transition from woman-on-top and allows you to see her body.
How to try it: Start in reverse cowgirl, then have her lean back until she’s on her elbows, with her back on your chest.
10. The Galley
Why it’s awesome: Watching her take charge is thrilling, and you can use your fingers for anal play.
How to try it: This is a variation of reverse cowgirl where she lies on your legs with her head near your feet and straddles you at the hips.
11. The Twisted Spoon
Why it’s awesome: It offers deep penetration without the physical strain of doggy style.
How to try it: Both lie on your sides, you behind her, with her top leg
12. The Duet
Why it’s awesome: Mutual masturbation helps partners understand each other’s pleasure points.
How to try it: Have your partner touch herself while you do the same, starting by touching her body as she masturbates and gradually touching yourself.
Exploring new sex positions can reignite passion and bring excitement back into your relationship. Whether you’re incorporating toys or trying out these wild positions, the key is to communicate with your partner and enjoy the journey together. So, take your time, have fun, and discover new ways to connect intimately. Happy experimenting!
