Here’s a detailed blog tailored to lesbian couples, exploring intimate and exciting positions, including how to incorporate tools like a strap-on for added pleasure. Let’s dive in!
1. Scissoring
Scissoring, also called tribbing, is a popular lesbian sex position that combines intimacy and direct stimulation. Both partners face each other, interlocking legs to create an “X” shape, allowing their vulvas to press and grind together. This movement provides clitoral and labial stimulation, creating intense pleasure. Partners can adjust their positioning for comfort, leaning back on their hands or lying down. Scissoring fosters connection through eye contact, kissing, or caressing, enhancing emotional intimacy. Adding a water-based lubricant can reduce friction and make the experience smoother. This position blends physical pleasure with closeness, making it a favorite for many.
2. Thigh Tide
Thigh Tide, also known as the “knee move,” is a great position for those who enjoy grinding. Your partner lies on her back, keeping one leg straight and bending the other knee upward. You straddle her raised thigh, sitting on her lap, and begin grinding yourself against her thigh or quads for intense stimulation. This position is versatile—you can incorporate anal play using fingers or a dildo, adding extra pleasure if desired. To keep things exciting, you can easily switch roles and let her experience the same sensations. Thigh Tide is all about creativity and intimate connection.
3. 69
69ing is a popular position for lesbian couples because it allows both partners to pleasure each other simultaneously. To start, one partner lies on her back while the other gets on top, facing the opposite direction. This positions each person’s vulva directly in front of the other’s mouth, allowing for simultaneous oral sex. While performing oral on each other, you can also use your hands to hold or massage your partner’s thighs or butt for added intimacy and pleasure. If the position feels uncomfortable, try lying on your sides to make the experience more relaxed while still enjoying mutual pleasure.
4. Face Sitting
Face Sitting is a great position for those who enjoy both dominance and submission in the bedroom. To begin, have your partner lie down on her back while you kneel above her, straddling her face. You can either face her body or turn around, depending on your preference. Lower yourself onto her mouth, allowing her to pleasure you orally. You can either rest your weight on her face or hover above her using your leg muscles for control, depending on what feels most comfortable and pleasurable for you both. This position is intimate and offers a powerful connection between partners.
5. Cowgirl (With A Strap On)
The Cowgirl position with a strap-on is a fun way to experiment with power dynamics and different types of pleasure. After putting on the strap-on, the partner on the bottom lies on their back while the other straddles them, facing forward. The person on top can either thrust into their partner or stay still and allow the bottom to grind on them, focusing on clitoral stimulation. You can also try leaning forward for a more intimate experience or lean back for added G-spot stimulation. Don’t forget to switch roles and positions to keep things exciting and explore what feels best for both of you.
6. Doggy Style (With A Strap On)
Doggy Style with a strap-on is a classic lesbian intercourse position that offers both partners a chance to enjoy different sensations. For this position, the partner on the bottom gets on their hands and knees while the person on top wears the strap-on and penetrates from behind. The thrusting motion can be varied, with the bottom partner controlling the pace by pushing back or allowing the top to take the lead. If you’re engaging in anal sex, it’s important to use proper preparation and include additional techniques, like manual stimulation, to enhance pleasure for both partners.
7. Missionary (With A Strap On)
The Missionary position in lesbian sex can be highly intimate, especially when using a strap-on. To get started, your partner lies on their back, and you position yourself on top, facing them. From here, you can start penetrating in a way that feels right for both of you. If thrusting is preferred, focus on in-and-out movements. For added pleasure, try the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) where you stay deep inside while grinding against your partner’s clitoris. Using pillows to elevate your partner’s hips can also change the angle of penetration for deeper pleasure. Additionally, exploring bondage can add excitement if you’re into BDSM—just be sure to communicate and establish a safe word. There are also variations of the Missionary position worth exploring, such as the Deckchair and Sandwich positions, which can offer new sensations and experiences.
8. Jockey (With A Strap On)
The Jockey position is a great choice if you enjoy having sex from behind while pegging with a strap-on. In this position, your partner lies on her stomach while you get on top, kneeling behind her. This position can help achieve vaginal orgasms, as it offers a variety of angles for penetration. Start with simple in-and-out thrusts, adjusting the angle to find what feels best for your partner. You can also remain deep inside and grind back and forth, stimulating different areas of her vagina. For added pleasure, your partner can place a pillow or sex wedge under her hips to enhance the angle of penetration and increase stimulation.
9. Deep Impact
The Deep Impact position is excellent for exploring G-spot stimulation during pegging. For this position, your partner lies on her back with her ankles resting on your shoulders, while you kneel between her legs. You can then start pegging her with a strap-on, holding her legs for leverage.
To adjust the angle and depth of penetration, you can either lean forward for deeper penetration, which targets the A-spot (deep spot), or lean back for shallower penetration, which is better for stimulating the G-spot. To increase depth, try placing a pillow under her hips. This position allows for a range of sensations and can be adjusted to fit your partner’s preferences for optimal pleasure.
10. Spooning
Spooning is a highly intimate position for lesbian sex, offering closeness and comfort whether you’re engaging in penetrative or non-penetrative acts. Both partners lie on their sides, facing in the same direction, with the “big spoon” positioned behind the “little spoon.”
As the big spoon, you can wrap your arms around your partner, intertwining your legs for added intimacy. You can start by gently sliding your hands down her body to stimulate her clitoris, labia, or even finger her. If you’re wearing a strap-on, you can explore vaginal or anal penetration. The position can also be adjusted with variations like Sofa Spooning, Teaspooning, or Bent Spoon, offering multiple ways to enhance pleasure.
11. Pretzel
The Pretzel position is a versatile woman-on-woman sex position, suitable for both penetrative (using a strap-on) and non-penetrative sex (such as tribbing or grinding). To set up, your partner lies on her side, bringing her top knee toward her chest and keeping her bottom leg straight. You then straddle her bottom leg, facing her, and can have her rest her top leg over your leg as you start engaging.
If you’re on top, you can grind against her bottom leg. If tribbing is preferred, adjust by raising her top knee closer to her chest for easier vaginal rubbing. For penetrative sex, the Pretzel position works well with a strap-on, offering different ways to enjoy intimacy.
12. Cunnilingus For The Queen
The Cunnilingus For The Queen position is a simple and effective way to pleasure your partner with oral sex. To start, have your partner sit on the edge of a comfortable surface like a chair, sofa, or bed. Then, kneel in front of her and begin with some foreplay, such as kissing and caressing, before removing her clothes.
When performing cunnilingus, try techniques like the Pancake or Vortex to increase pleasure. A fun variation includes pulling her thighs toward your face while you continue, or adding a femdom twist by cuffing her hands behind her back or tying her arms, enhancing the intimacy and excitement.
13. Standing Embrace
The Standing Embrace is a great position for quick and spontaneous sex, perfect for a quickie. Both partners stand facing the same direction. If you’re behind, wrap your arms around your partner in a sensual embrace, caressing her body as you begin to pleasure her.
You can slip your hand down her stomach and into her pants, stimulating her with your fingers. For added excitement, you can focus on nipple stimulation or even explore light choking (with her consent). You can also perform anal sex with a strap-on while maintaining this intimate standing position, offering both pleasure and connection.
14. Mutual Masturbation
Mutual masturbation is a technique where you and your partner pleasure each other at the same time, often leading to heightened intimacy and shared pleasure. While it doesn’t rely on a specific position, it can be performed in various locations such as on a couch, bed, or even in the shower.
The key focus here is on the connection and techniques used. You both stimulate each other, experimenting with what feels best for both partners. It’s a great way to explore each other’s desires and learn what brings both of you the most satisfaction. The freedom to choose the position allows for a relaxed, comfortable experience, making it a versatile and fun way to enjoy intimacy.
