What’s the dynamic between your favorite vibrator and your boyfriend – do they coexist in harmony, or is there a little competition for your attention? One fun way to mix things up is by introducing your vibrator into the experience with your boyfriend. This time, it’s not just about you – it’s about sharing the pleasure in a whole new way.
Why Use a Vibrator on Your Boyfriend?
There are plenty of reasons why incorporating a vibrator into your playtime with your boyfriend can be a game-changer. For one, vibrators offer enhanced sensations that bring a whole new layer of pleasure to the experience. Not just for her, but for him too! The vibrations stimulate not only intimate areas but can be used all over the body – the neck, chest, or even the inner thighs. The added sensation can elevate arousal, making everything feel even more intense.
Additionally, introducing a vibrator can help maintain excitement and novelty in your relationship. In long-term partnerships, it’s easy for routines to settle in, but trying something new can reignite that spark. A vibrator isn’t just a tool for orgasm; it’s a way to keep exploring together and to remind each other of the fun, adventurous side of your connection. Whether it’s during foreplay or as an extra boost during sex, the vibrator brings new dimensions to your shared intimacy.
5 Ways to Use a Vibrator on Your Boyfriend
Although we often use our sex toys in the same way, they are actually incredibly versatile and can elevate pleasure in many different ways. The key is to explore new possibilities with your partner and find what works best for both of you.
1. Treat Him to a Full-Body Erotic Massage
Vibrators don’t always have to mean penetration. A full-body massage is an amazing way to engage with your partner during foreplay, especially when focusing on male erogenous zones such as:
- Ears
- Neck
- ChestInner
- thighs
- Armpits
- Wrists
- Behind the knees
Start by using your hands to explore these areas and ask your boyfriend which spots feel the best. Remember, everyone has different preferences, so pay attention to his cues. Once you’ve built up some excitement with your hands, bring in the vibrator for a whole new layer of sensation. The vibrations will penetrate deeper, providing a much more intense feeling than touch alone. Take your time and tease him — building anticipation adds a playful edge to your intimacy.
2. Bring the Vibe Into the Shower
Showering together can be an intimate and arousing experience, and it’s even better when you bring your vibrator along for the ride. If you have a waterproof vibrator, try using it in the shower to explore new forms of stimulation. You can switch between externally stimulating each other, and if you feel comfortable, try adding some internal pleasure. The running water can mask the sound of the vibrator if your partner is sensitive to it, and best of all, cleanup is a breeze!
3. Elevate Oral Sex
If your partner enjoys oral sex and is open to using toys, try incorporating a vibrator into the mix. One great option is to stimulate his perineum — the area between the testicles and anus. This spot is extremely sensitive, and when stimulated, it can even activate the prostate (male G-spot) from the outside, leading to incredibly intense sensations. This combined stimulation can even trigger full-body orgasms that feel more intense than a typical penile orgasm.
4. Spice Up Handjobs
If you want to start off with something more subtle, try pairing a vibrator with a handjob. You can stimulate his perineum with the vibrator while using your hands to stroke the shaft and head of his penis. This dual stimulation creates an incredibly pleasurable effect.
If your partner enjoys testicle stimulation, consider placing the vibrator on his scrotum as well. Adding vibration to this area increases the intensity of the sensations and can lead to more fulfilling pleasure.
5. Explore Prostate Massage
Though we don’t suggest jumping straight into anal penetration, if your boyfriend is open to exploring, a prostate massage with a vibrator can enhance pleasure significantly. The tissue around the anus is rich in nerve endings and responds well to gentle stimulation.
Start with external vibration near the anus to see how he reacts. Vary the vibration patterns and intensity, and once he’s comfortable, you can begin experimenting with light penetration. Insert just the tip of the vibrator and allow him to get used to the sensation. Gradually increase the depth as he relaxes, ensuring that you’re both enjoying the experience.
By getting creative with your vibrator, you can enhance the pleasure you share with your boyfriend and bring fresh excitement to your relationship. Whether it’s through sensual massages, combining toys with oral or hand stimulation, or exploring prostate massage, there’s no limit to how you can use vibrators to create deeper connections and more intense sensations.
