Remote control sex toys have completely changed the game when it comes to modern intimacy. They’re fun, versatile, and built for teasing, whether you’re in the bedroom or boldly venturing out. For couples, they offer thrilling power play. For solo users, they create anticipation like never before.
In this article, we’ll dive into 10 sexy and creative locations/scenarios where you can use your remote-controlled toy to make ordinary moments way more memorable. (Some are discreet, some daring—you decide your level of adventure. )
1. At the Movies (or a Cozy Movie Night at Home)
Popcorn, a dark room, and a remote-controlled vibrator under your clothes—yes please. Hand the remote to your partner and feel the buzz build as they trigger random vibrations during the movie. At home? Even better. Add in oral teasing, cuddling, or whispered dirty talk to amp it up.
Toy ideas: Wearable panties vibrator, vibrating plug, penis ring with remote
Excitement factor: 7/10 in public, 9/10 in private
2. Fancy Dinner or Bar Date
You’re dressed to the nines, feeling flirty, and seated across from each other at a restaurant. Under the table? Your partner’s in full control. Watch them smirk every time the vibrations kick in and you bite your lip trying not to squirm.
Pro tip: Choose a quiet, buzzing toy for more discretion, and use lower settings for subtle thrills.
Toy ideas: Remote panty vibe, vibrating egg, discreet anal plug
Excitement factor: 10/10 for public teasing
3. While Shopping or Running Errands
What seems like a boring afternoon becomes very interesting when you’re walking through Target or Whole Foods while your partner plays “press to tease.” Try it in the changing room, snack aisle, or even the parking lot. Play a game—every time you see a red item, they press the button!
Toy ideas: App-controlled wearable vibes or prostate massagers
Excitement factor: 9/10 when spontaneity hits
4. At the Airport or While Traveling
Long layovers and TSA lines are less painful when your partner can make you blush across the terminal. Wear the toy through the check-in, sip a drink at the gate, and let the vibrations keep you grounded.
Warning: Avoid triggering during TSA check unless you’re really into risk.
Toy ideas: Quiet clit sucker, internal vibe with remote, cock ring
Excitement factor: 10/10 if you love secret play
5. Long-Distance Date Nights
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just apart for the weekend, remote-control toys let you touch each other from anywhere. Sync up with app-controlled toys during video calls, sexy voice messages, or a text-based teasing session.
Bonus idea: Send your partner a list of commands—each level increases intensity.
Toy ideas: App-controlled vibrators, male strokers with interactive modes
Excitement factor: 10/10 emotional and physical intimacy boost
6. During Penetrative Sex
Remote toys don’t have to stay outside the sheets. Add a vibrating cock ring for clitoral stimulation, a P-spot plug for him, or a wearable G-spot toy that reacts to thrusting. With the remote in one partner’s hand, you can create patterns of pleasure in rhythm with your movements.
Toy ideas: Vibrating cock ring, G-spot plug, thrusting dildo with remote
Excitement factor: 11/10 when both climax at once
7. During Game Night with Friends (for the brave)
Yes, we’re going there. If you and your partner enjoy living on the edge, wear your toy during a game night or social gathering. The stimulation mixed with pretending to be “normal” is pure naughty fun. Your secret is safe (unless you can’t stop giggling).
Toy ideas: Silent vibrating egg or remote butt plug
Excitement factor: 8/10 if you like hidden thrill
8. In the Car (as a Passenger, Please!)
Perfect for pre-date teasing, late-night drives, or romantic getaways. While your partner drives, they can control your toy with one hand on the wheel and one on the remote. Bonus: Try it in drive-thru lines or parking lots for quick bursts of pleasure.
Toy ideas: Remote panty vibrator, wearable plug
Excitement factor: 9/10 for pre-game teasing
9. In Nature or the Outdoors
You’re on a picnic, a quiet beach, or deep in the woods—what could go wrong? (Answer: absolutely nothing if you’re discreet.) Nature sounds and fresh air pair surprisingly well with buzzing between your legs.
Toy ideas: Small vibrating plug, G-spot wearable
Excitement factor: 8/10 for outdoor exhibitionists
10. Playful Power Exchange at Home
Sometimes it’s not about where, but how. Set rules—like “You’re only allowed to speak if the vibration is off” or “You can’t touch yourself unless the toy is on level 3.” Add in blindfolds or bondage for a full dom/sub remote control scene.
Toy ideas: All types—plus a good imagination
Excitement factor: 12/10 if you love control games
Final Tips for Remote Control Play:
Always agree on a safe signal, especially in public or semi-public places.
Test the toy’s volume beforehand—it’s not hot if you’re worried people can hear it.
Use the element of surprise to your advantage.
Don’t rush to orgasm—drag it out. The tease is the thrill.
Ready to Explore?
Remote control sex toys are not just tech gadgets. They’re tools for connection, experimentation, and unforgettable fun. Whether you’re daring or discreet, spontaneous or strategic, the world is your playground.
So… Where will you play next?
