Squirting raises a lot of questions and sparks confusion. Some doubt its existence, believing it’s just urination in disguise. I can personally attest that squirting is indeed real, and it’s not the same as peeing.
The challenge lies in the fact that not all women are natural squirters. Learning how to squirt is possible but far from the effortless portrayal seen in movies. For some, it may take years of sexual experience before experiencing it for the first time, while others may never achieve it, regardless of their efforts.
What is Squirting?
Squirting, also known as female ejaculation, involves the release of a substantial amount of fluid during sexual arousal. So much fluid that it literally squirts out of her vagina.
Understanding how to achieve squirting starts with delving into a more advanced understanding of female anatomy. Squirting is closely connected to a set of glands known as the Skene’s glands. These glands produce a fluid when a woman experiences sexual stimulation. When these Skene’s glands are directly stimulated, they can release a significant amount of fluid at once.
The confusion surrounding squirting arises from its specific requirements. Firstly, a woman must possess a particular structure of Skene’s glands.
Second, these glands must be stimulated precisely to trigger the release of liquid. While sexual stimulation can sometimes achieve this, squirting generally necessitates a more intense level of stimulation than usual. Devices like G-Spot vibrators, with their specialized shape and power, are often preferred for this purpose.
Thirdly, not all Skene’s glands are equipped for this task. Larger-than-average glands are needed to store a sufficient amount of liquid, and strong muscles are essential to expel the liquid in a squirting fashion.
Tips From Real Squirters
When it comes to discovering how to experience squirting, we turned to the experts—those who have mastered the art, including renowned sex experts and adult performers celebrated for their squirting prowess. Here, they share their guidance on achieving your first squirting experience:
Explore your body: Take the time to discover what feels good for you. Experiment with different types of stimulation, such as clitoral, G-spot, or a combination of both. Remember, self-exploration is key.
Build arousal: Engage in extended foreplay and build up arousal gradually. This can increase the chances of experiencing squirting. Take your time and enjoy the journey.
Prepare in Advance: Experienced squirters frequently draw a parallel between the sensation of squirting and urination, even though these are distinct bodily functions. The challenge lies in the proximity of the Skene’s glands, responsible for squirting, to the bladder.
This proximity can lead to confusion for many women who may mistake the sensation for needing to urinate and attempt to withhold their squirting when they should actually release it. To avoid this potential issue, it’s advisable to visit the bathroom beforehand to empty your bladder, ensuring a more comfortable experience.
G-spot stimulation: The G-spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, is often associated with squirting. Experiment with different techniques, such as using your fingers or a G-spot vibrator, to stimulate this erogenous zone.
Communication is key: If you have a partner, open and honest communication is essential. Share your desires, boundaries, and experiences with each other. Together, you can explore and enhance your sexual connection.
Good info
I didn’t think i could, but holy crap that was a freaking blast