Feeling stuck in the bedroom rut is common. But trying new things can reignite excitement and keep things fresh. Don’t hesitate to experiment and let your imaginations soar—that’s the essence of great sex!
Pegging is a great way to mix up your sex life and add a little extra spice to your bedroom play.
1. What is Pegging?
Pegging involves one person using a strap-on dildo to penetrate their partner’s anus. The term was popularized by sex columnist Dan Savage and has become increasingly popular. While some may see pegging as taboo, it can be a very fun and satisfying experience for both partners. The anus is a sensitive area, and sensual play there can feel amazing. For opposite-sex couples, pegging also reverses traditional gender roles, adding a unique element of power play. If you usually receive penetration, pegging can let you take on a more dominant role in the bedroom.
2. How to Ask for Pegging
If you’re curious about pegging, communicating openly with your partner is key. Here are a few tips to help you get started:
(1). Do Your Research
Learn about pegging and what you might enjoy about it. Watching a pegging scene together or reading erotica can help get the conversation flowing and turn you on.
(2). Consider Why You Want to Try It
Be honest with yourself and your partner about your reasons. Whether you want to explore your dominant side or are curious about anal play, clarity will help.
(3). Be Direct and Honest
When you’re ready, talk to your partner directly and honestly. Choose a relaxed moment outside the bedroom to discuss it, respecting their boundaries and being open to their concerns and fantasies.
3. How to Prepare for Pegging
Preparation is crucial for a comfortable and enjoyable pegging experience. Here’s what you need:
(1). A Willing Partner
Ensure your partner is happy and consenting.
(2). A Strap-On Dildo
Choose the perfect size and shape for both of you. Take your time to pick one that you are both comfortable with.
(3). Lubricant
Use plenty of lube for comfortable anal sex. Apply it generously to both the dildo and your partner’s anus, and reapply as needed. Having condoms on hand can also be a good idea, even if not technically required.
(4). Cleanliness
Both partners should be thoroughly clean. Shower and pay extra attention to the anal area. Using an enema or douche can help ensure cleanliness.
(5). Go Slow
Start slowly and communicate with your partner about what feels good. Begin with something smaller than a dildo, like fingers or a small butt plug, and gradually move to penetration.
3. Pegging Sex Positions
Once you’re prepped and ready, here are a few beginner-friendly pegging positions:
(1). Doggy
The receiver starts on all fours. The giver can slowly insert the dildo. Communicate and start with slow and shallow thrusts, increasing as comfort allows.
(2). Take a Seat
The giver sits on the edge of a bed or chair, and the receiver straddles them. The receiver can control the depth and speed, setting the rhythm.
(3). Leg Spread
The receiver lies on their back with legs spread, and the giver lies over the top to insert the strap-on. This position allows the receiver to masturbate while maintaining eye contact, adding intimacy.
By following these tips and positions, you’ll be on your way to enjoying a new and exciting aspect of your sexual relationship. Embrace the adventure and discover new heights of pleasure together!
